So I checked into the DNA match. I thought it was a remote possibility, but three weeks later I received an email about a match.
Her name was Rose. I was 55 and living a few villages away.
I sent him a message that I felt as if I was rushing off a cliff: Hello. My name is Kate, and you’re a direct DNA match with me. I think you can be my aunt. If you’re willing, I’d very much like to talk.
The next day, her answer came: I know I’ve been adopted since I was little. I’ve never had answers. Yes. Let’s meet.
We chose a quiet coffee shop halfway between my city and yours. I arrived soon, making a napkin.
Then she came in. And I knew it instantly.
It was the eyes… he had Grandma’s eyes.
“Kate?” he asked, in a soft, tentative voice.
“Rose,” I got to say, standing up.
We sat down and slipped on the table Grandma Evelyn’s black and white photo with her baby in her arms.
Rose took her with both hands. “Is it her?”
“Yes,” I confirmed. “She was my grandmother. And Rose, she spent her whole life looking for you.”