I am 87 years old: if you cannot live alone, before going to a care home, consider these alternatives.

I’m 87 years old, and what I’m about to share could help many older people avoid one of the most painful mistakes they make when they begin to need assistance.

It’s a mistake that feels reasonable—even unavoidable—but is often made without realizing there are other choices.

My name is José. Six months ago, I found myself in a difficult position: I could no longer live safely on my own. I forgot to take my medication, left the stove on, and once even went out to buy bread… only to forget

how to get back home.

 

My daughter was deeply worried. She wanted to move me into a nursing home. She had already researched options, visited facilities, and made arrangements. I nearly agreed because I believed there was no alternative.

But I was wrong.

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