I am 87 years old: if you cannot live alone, before going to a care home, consider these alternatives.

Little by little, more people joined:

The bar owner nearby, who notices if I don’t show up in the morning
The pharmacist, who reminds me when prescriptions need renewing
The greengrocer, who delivers heavy groceries once a week
The result changed everything

Six months passed.

I never forgot my medication again.
My home stayed clean and organized.
Every night, someone made sure I was

safe.

More importantly, I had purpose again.

I had conversations, responsibilities, and people who counted on me.

I no longer felt like a burden.

I felt like I belonged.

 

It wasn’t just about saving money

Yes, I spend far less than I would in a nursing home.

But that’s not the best part.

The best part is staying in my own home.

Sleeping in my own bed.

Surrounded by my memories, my photos, my life.

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