My Boyfriend of 9 Years Said He’d Put a Ring on My Finger When I Acted like Wife Material – I Didn’t Argue, but the Next Morning, He Stared and Murmured, ‘You… You Can’t Do This to Me!’

“Because you have hands.”

“See? That’s exactly what I mean. You don’t make my life easier anymore.”

I laughed in disbelief. “So that’s what a wife is?”

“You don’t make my life easier anymore.”

“Don’t twist my words.”

He rubbed his forehead, then looked straight at me.

“I’ll put a ring on your finger when you start acting like wife material.”

The man I’d spent my entire adult life with had just told me I was still auditioning, and I was standing there in my birthday dress with a dog licking my hand. Normally, I would have argued.

But instead, I was going to do something completely different.

“I’ll put a ring on your finger when you start acting like wife material.”

***

Simon left for work at eight, kissed my forehead as if nothing had happened.

I don’t know why. Maybe nine years of habit doesn’t switch off overnight. Maybe I thought that if I just tried harder, last night would turn out to be a bad dream.

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